Sunday, April 26, 2009

The Outsiders

Today I am just quoting from an article I am reading about Leta Hollingworth regarding the special problems faced by the extremely intelligent.

Is any of this familiar?

Children with IQs up to 150 get along in the ordinary course of school life quite well, achieving excellent marks without serious effort. But children above this mental status become almost intolerably bored with school work if kept in lockstep with unselected pupils of their own age. Children who rise above 170 IQ are liable to regard school with indifference or with positive dislike, for they find nothing in the work to absorb their interest. This condition of affairs, coupled with the supervision of unseeing and unsympathetic teachers, has sometimes led even to truancy on the part of gifted children


Another problem of development with reference to occupation grows out of the versatility of these children. So far from being one-sided in ability and interest, they are typically capable of so many different kinds of success that they may have difficulty in confining themselves to a reasonable number of enterprises. Some of them are lost to usefulness through spreading their available time and energy over such a wide array of projects that nothing can be finished or done perfectly.


A lesson which many gifted persons never learn as long as they live is that human beings in general are inherently very different from themselves in thought, in action, in general intention, and in interests. Many a reformer has died at the hands of a mob which he was trying to improve in the belief that other human beings can and should enjoy what he enjoys. This is one of the most painful and difficult lessons that each gifted child must learn, if personal development is to proceed successfully. It is more necessary that this be learned than that any school subject be mastered. Failure to learn how to tolerate in a reasonable fashion the foolishness of others leads to bitterness, disillusionment, and misanthropy

The single greatest adjustment problem faced by the gifted, however, is their tendency to become isolated from the rest of humanity. This problem is especially acute among the exceptionally gifted. Hollingworth says:

This tendency to become isolated is one of the most important factors to be considered in guiding the development of personality in highly intelligent children, but it does not become a serious problem except at the very extreme degrees of intelligence. The majority of children between 130 and 150 find fairly easy adjustment, because neighborhoods and schools are selective, so that like-minded children tend to be located in the same schools and districts. Furthermore, the gifted child, being large and strong for his age, is acceptable to playmates a year or two older. Great difficulty arises only when a young child is above 160 IQ. At the extremely high levels of 180 or 190 IQ, the problem of friendships is difficult indeed, and the younger the person the more difficult it is. The trouble decreases with age because as persons become adult, they naturally seek and find on their own initiative groups who are like-minded, such as learned societies

Hollingworth points out that the exceptionally gifted do not deliberately choose isolation, but are forced into it against their wills.

These superior children are not unfriendly or ungregarious by nature. Typically they strive to play with others but their efforts are defeated by the difficulties of the case… Other children do not share their interests, their vocabulary, or their desire to organize activities.

But if the exceptionally gifted is isolated from his contemporaries, the gulf between him and the adult authorities in his life is even deeper.

The very gifted child or adolescent, perceiving the illogical conduct of those in charge of his affairs, may turn rebellious against all authority and fall into a condition of negative suggestibility–a most unfortunate trend of personality, since the person is then unable to take a cooperative attitude toward authority.

All things considered, the psychologist who has observed the development of gifted children over a long period of time from early childhood to maturity, evolves the idea that there is a certain restricted portion of the total range of intelligence which is most favorable to the development of successful and well-rounded personality in the world as it now exists. This limited range appears to be somewhere between 125 and 155 IQ. Children and adolescents in this area are enough more intelligent than the average to win the confidence of large numbers of their fellows, which brings about leadership, and to manage their own lives with superior efficiency. Moreover, there are enough of them to afford mutual esteem and understanding. But those of 170 IQ and beyond are too intelligent to be understood by the general run of persons with whom they make contact. They are too infrequent to find congenial companions. They have to contend with loneliness and personal isolation from their contemporaries throughout the period of their immaturity.

Here is the full article

6 comments:

  1. I always find this subject fascinating, thanks for posting it.

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  2. Man. That is just depressing. I think I 'll go and have a drink.:/
    then , and only then, do I think I can read that article in it's entirety.

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  3. "Another problem of development with reference to occupation grows out of the versatility of these children. So far from being one-sided in ability and interest, they are typically capable of so many different kinds of success that they may have difficulty in confining themselves to a reasonable number of enterprises. Some of them are lost to usefulness through spreading their available time and energy over such a wide array of projects that nothing can be finished or done perfectly. "

    This is me, and we see it in our dd to a greater extent, but I think home schooling lets her pursue interests in such a way that some develop into long term interests among many unfinished projects. In the long-term it should help her narrow her interests.

    The sad part is finding kids nearby that share interests and overlap interests that they get along. It's been a hard year. At least there is e-mail and internet for today's kids. But it still doesn't replace that want for a certain friend.

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  4. I'm driving up to Forte's for that drink. ;-)

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  5. So, Mariposa's Hubby can make a mean Mojito...
    Anyway...I have to agree that, despite Grace's ability to "blend" with the homeschool group here( she's very social that way), she is always yearning for "alike" companionship that she only gets with certain kids.
    We have always aclled ehr the "Jack -of-all-trades", because she does everything she tries at least reasonably well, by public standards. I have one freind who I think has tired of this trait in her, and would rather see her NOT be good at at least one thing :/
    I have no idea if this will bode well for her futre, or if it will totally destrroy her chances of doing something she loves!

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  6. My first comment on this post didn't take, so I'll just say that I've read this before, and although Hollingworth uses somewhat elitist language, I totally get what she is saying, for me, my husband, and my daughter.

    It really makes me think about our goals for homeschooling, and my goals for life.

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